Hi,
It’s very hard to deal with people’s selfishness. I know that I have lost ‘friends’ because they couldn’t accept I have pain and limitations, I got fed up having to keep repeating things to try and make them understand. One thing I do know is that they don’t actually have to understand, if you’ve never been in that persons situation, never had their pain, you cannot understand, but you can accept how they are and be more thoughtful.
Anne