Sorry, I have read back what I posted and its all very muddled.
Basically I know where you are coming from, at 27 and married for a few years I do feel that i should be more involved than I am. But I also find that we have very little ‘quality’ time together, I am so tired and working just exhausts me, (I have a very understanding boss in a very small office), that I do wonder what my husband gets from me in this relationship.
I hope everyone who has posted is doing ok and apologies again for muddled up thinking, lol.
